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Bengali matrimony

Bengali matrimony

Customs & Ritual in Bengali matrimony

Like all other matrimony Bengali matrimony has own flavor of rich Ritual & customs. Bengali are divides broadly in two groups West Bengal & East Bengal. West Bengal means those recedes in Bengal before 1971 ( Bharat Pakistan ware) and East Bengal means who came from Bangladesh. Bengali pronouns are different in both Bengali group. Bengali wedding rituals are  different for West Bengali & East Bengali.

Bengali marriage  have different tradition & customs in East Bengali and West Bengali. Previous time due to difference of tradition arrange marriage almost impossible between both two community. Presently this problem is gradually reducing and we hope it will be eliminate in near future. Although the cultural difference Bengali marriage compare to other north Indian marriage less fancy and gaudy.

In present scenario educated Bengali Brides and grooms from Bangladesh wants to settle in India or USA,UK etc. Due to Political Uncertainty Specially Bangladeshi educated Bengali Brides  wants to marry Bengali NRI grooms and elite Bengali grooms mostly settle in Abroad they also looking for Bengali brides in Kolkata. Those who want to settle abroad permanently they are also looking for Bengali NRI Brides.

But Bengali NRI grooms from Kolkata are mostly looking for non-working Bengali Brides from Kolkata. They are mostly working in IT sector, Due to uncertainty of posting mostly looking for Homely Bengali Brides from Kolkata.

For Bengali Elite Brides & grooms the matching preference is different. Bengali Elite Brides are mostly engage her father’s business or founder of a startup or a doctor they are looking for Bengali grooms settle in Kolkata. Bengali Elite Brides who are celebrity works as a media person like actress in Tollywood Industry they are basically looking for Bengali Doctor grooms Or Bengali Engineer groom in general. Some of Elite Bengali actress brides  are also married Elite Bengali actor groom.

The Bengali Brides & grooms who pass out from IIT-IIM, and other Ivy League University they generally married any Ivy league graduate irrespective of caste & Nation.

For searching matching profile we are provide two Service

  1. Online matrimony Service
  2. Assisted Matrimony Service.

Online Bengali matrimony Service:

The most effective way to search Bengali bride & Bengali Grooms to search in Online matrimonial website for Bengali. You can get thousands of verified matching Bengali profile for you. You can Register your profile Free.

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Assisted Matrimony/ Personalize matchmaking Service

Assisted matrimony or Personalize matchmaking  service is another best way to finding your life partner. Our dedicated marriage agent will search profile for you.. If you are in hurry and want to settle within a specific time then this service is good option for you. Here your relationship Manager assist you to finding your soul mate according to your matching.

NRI Assisted Matrimony Service

This service similar to Assisted Matrimony Service but this service includes NRI Assistant Service. Suitable for Bengali NRI.

Elite Matrimony Service for Bengali Elite , Celebrity and HNI’s

Elite and celebrity have more needs compare to other. This service suitable for Wealthy individuals and their families. This service includes optimum level of Privacy and effective for Bengali elite, celebrity, Bengali Actor/ Actress and HNI.

PRE Marriage Investigation/ Background verification Service

As Being most trusted bengali marriage bureau in Kolkata, we provide Pre marriage investigation or Background verification for our member. This service is discreet & confidential. Our marriage investigation team provide you details verification for Job, family etc. This service is extremely recommended before finalizing negotiation.

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Marriage Bureau in Kolkata call @ 9883007799

Marriage Bureau in Kolkata  (कोलकाता)

Kolkata (कोलकाता) is capital of West Bengal. There are different rituals & Culture present in Kolkata. At the time of british raj Kolkata was capital of India. There are different Cross culture shown in Kolkata.The majore population in Kolkata from Bengali community, beside that parsi, Sikh,Jain, Hindu Agwarwal ( Marwari) community also live in Kolkata. we provide service for all cast & Religion in Kolkata.

Register your name in Online Matrimony site in Kolkata

The most effective way to search Kolkata bride & Kolkata Grooms to search in Online matrimonial website in Kolkata. You can register your name free of cost. Online matrimony is now best platform to meet Kolkata based singles. Before Registration one should upload his/her photo ID, for profile genuineness. You can send interest, chat, view phone no etc. it is recommended that you should Chat with your partner. If he/ she interested then go for further processing.

Go for Assisted Matrimony Service in Kolkata ( ghatak service (বিয়ের ঘটক ) in Kolkata)

 Assisted matrimony or Personalize matchmaking  service is another best way to finding your life partner. This service is similar to বিয়ের ঘটক . the considerable difference is it is more cheap service and more effective. If you are in hurry and want to settle within a specific time then this service is good option for you. Here your relationship Manager assist you to finding your soul mate according to your matching. Alternatively you can also contact for marriage bureau in Kolkata ( Biyer Ghatak in Kolkata, मैरिज ब्यूरो कोलकाता) for searching Kolkata bride & Kolkata groom.

Background Verification/ Pre Marriage Investigation:

As Being most trusted marriage bureau in Kolkata,for genuineness we provide Pre marriage investigation or Background verification for our member. This service is Totally trusted confidential & Secure.Background verification is most necessary step before Finalizing marriage.

Elite Matrimony Service in Kolkata

We provide elite matrimony service in Kolkata. Elite service is most discreet and personalize confidential matrimony service suitable for Elite class / Business class people in kolkata. This matrimony service suitable for Celebrity Brides & Grooms in Kolkata. For more Details please click Here

Event Management/Wedding Planning service in Kolkata:

We provide best wedding planning/ Event management service in Kolkata. If you want to celebrate your special day in Kolkata we provide service from Venue booking, catering, Hospitality, Bridal makeup etc with a best competitive price.

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Tradition of Bengali weddings and its Rituals & Customs

Tradition of Bengali weddings and its Rituals & Customs

The tying of the nuptial knot in traditional Bengali weeding entails a series of elaborate and colorful rituals. The Bengali matrimony is an elaborate and long affair. The wedding rituals spans the period of three days, which includes pre-wedding, wedding and post-wedding rituals. Blowing of the conch shell and ululation by the women gathered at the wedding venue heralds the beginning of a traditional Bengali marriage.

Pre-Wedding Rituals

  • Ashirbaad –On an auspicious day, the elders of the groom’s side go to bless the bride by sprinkling husked rice and trefoil on their heads and giving them gold ornaments. The same is done by the bride’s family for the groom. This symbolizes acceptance of the boy and the girl from both sides.
  • Decoration –An alpona (rangoli) is drawn and designs like lotus flowers or fish may depict various auspicious elements of the wedding. In addition, a small banana tree is placed at the entrance of the house. Under the tree a copper vessel called mangal ghot is placed. The door is decorated with a string of mango leaves, which stays on for a period of one year after the marriage.
  • Vridhi Ceremony –In this ceremony, the ancestors are worshipped. This takes place both in the house of the bride as well as the groom.
  • Holud Kota –In this ceremony, five or seven married women of the household grind turmeric with mortar and pestle and anoint the bride with turmeric paste. This adds radiance to the bride’s complexion and makes her skin glow.
  • Adhibash –At the eve of the marriage day, seven married ladies adorn the bride’s hands with the traditional bangles Shakha and Paula that are one pair of red and one pair of white bangles respectively.
  • Wedding Piris –Piris are artistically designed and painted wooden planks usually decorated by a close friend or relative. The bride and the groom sit together on these piris followed by the blowing of Conch Shells.
  • Tattvas –Tattvas are the gifts that are exchanged between the bride’s family and the groom’s family before and after the wedding. The gifts that are sent to the bride from the groom’s house are called Gae hallud tattva. Along the same lines, the gifts that go to the groom’s house from the bride’s house are called Adhibas Tattva.

Main Bengali Wedding Rituals

  • Bor Jatri –The groom and his family members as well as his friends dress in their best attire and journey to the bride’s house where the wedding takes place.
  • Bor Boron –When the bor jatri reaches the bride’s place, the mother of the bride along with other members welcome the groom and his family with the holy earthen lamp, sprinkling trefoil, and husked rice placed on a bamboo winnow (kula). They are then served with sweets and drinks.
  • Potto Bastra –The groom is seated at the chadnatolla (wedding altar and canopy), that is the sanctum sanctorum where only the groom, bride and the priest takes their place. There the groom is offered new clothes by the person who is to do the sampradaan – a kind of gift to the boy from the girl’s side.
  • Saat Paak –In this ceremony, the bride is seated on a low wooden stool called piri and is lifted by her brothers and is taken round the groom in seven complete circles. The significance is that they are eternally joined to each other.
  • Mala Badal –After the circles are completed, the bride perched high on the piri exchanges garlands of fragrant flowers with the groom for three times. This marks the first step in which they accept each other.
  • Subho Dristi –After garlanding one another the bride and the groom are made to look at each other i n front of all the assembled invitees. This occasion is characterized by fun and revelry as the couple are on the receiving end of teasing comments and jokes from their relatives.
  • Yagna –The bride and groom sit in front of the sacred fire and chant mantras after the priest. The fire god, Agni, is made the divine witness to the marriage.
  • Anjali –An offering is made to the fire. The bride’s brother puts puffed rice (khoi) in the hands of the bride, and the groom standing close to her holds her hands from the back and extends their arms forward. They then pour the offering into the fire together.
  • Sindoor Daan and Ghomta –Once again seated at their respective places in chadnatolla the groom applies sindoor or vermilion (a symbol of marriage worn by Hindu women thereafter) on the bride’s hair-parting. The bride then covers her head with a new sari offered by the groom as Ghomta or veil.

Post-Wedding Rituals

  • Bidaay –This symbolizes the emotion-packed farewell moment. This moment is a mixture of joy and sorrow as the bride bids adieu with blessings of her parents and relatives to start a new life with her beau.
  • Kaal Ratri –After the couple reaches the groom’s house and the initial welcome ceremony is over they are separated for the night. This is done probably to get a refreshing sleep and prepare for the next day’s final wedding ceremony.
  • Bou Bhaat & Bodhu Boron –The girl cooks food items and herself serves all the members of her husband’s family. A feast is held in her honor to treat the guests who bestow gifts on the new bride.
  • Phool Shojja –The married couple is left alone together for the first time in their room to enjoy conjugal bliss on a bed laid with flowers.The traditional Bengali wedding is an amalgamation of several rituals both somber and fun-filled. The marriage not only symbolizes the joining of two entities in a never-ending bond but also is an occasion that is marked with familial togetherness and unity. A concept that is increasing getting lost in today’s modern, nuclear and fast-paced lifestyle.
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